Thursday, July 9, 2009

自信

有句话说:自信的人最美丽。
这句话的诠释有很多种,
如果是用在外表的,
那用的恰到好处。
如果是用在内心的,
就因人而异了!

我不喜欢过于自信的人,
因为这总会令他们变得高傲,
总是认为自己是对的,
即使知道自己错了,
也会为自己强力辩护。

过于自信的人,
不会听取他人的劝告,
甚至只是建议。
总爱打岔别人的话,
总爱否定别人的想法。

虽然有时候,
他们很容易说服人,
因为他们说话时的语气,动作,
会让人误解他说的就是对的。
激动,是他们的作风。
口沫横飞,是他们与生俱来的天赋。

其实他们知不知道,
聆听也是一种技巧。
静静的听完别人的陈诉,
不打断别人的话语,
是多么礼貌的行为。

16 comments:

婕米恩 said...


观察和聆听很重要
因为是让我们改进的方法

但有时候在细心聍听时
偏偏就有noise在附近讲不停

难道自己很厉害了咩
难道自己的idea很棒了咩

Shilei said...

well said!

Lrievert said...

自信过头就变成了自傲
谦虚过分就变成了虚伪
确实有如是的优点,但也要隐藏几分,这个叫做涵养

Sherly said...

haha.. i agree... Thaty people should alway learn to improve themselve lo..

Anonymous said...

双手双脚赞成,
而且,
过度自信的人,
我会怕。哈哈~

yeeping said...

dear,totally agree with you!

Someone Who Beh Tahan Dy said...

Sherly, well said, u're the one... Don't be too proud with urself... U would describe urself as a very straight forward ppl, however straight forward and 38 is only 1 mm away... i think u're the later... U should feel glad as ppl still treating u as a friend while u don even care ur friend's feeling...

诗婷 said...

re someone who beh tahan dy:
i didnt say is who wor...
y u think is sherly?
shouldn't say her like tat lar! she got hear we talk de....
我没有针对任何人啦!

utraman88 said...

blog 不是拿来攻击人的武器吧。。
然而用blog 来借刀杀人。。未免太过分吧。。
难道blog 的用意如此。。。。。

cvRong said...

很慘啦,部落格變成戰場??
就是有很多人對事情總是抱著先入為主的態度,才會造成那麼多口角。。
在還不清楚事情真相就在那邊煽風點火,可悲呀。。
哈哈,就算是要提醒對方也應該用婉轉一點的方法呀,這麼直接未免也太沒禮貌了吧!!
僅是能成為朋友是百事修來的福啊!!

看不爽的人2 said...

如果你有胆写出来。。请把你的姓名写出来啦。。 WTF。。 懦夫!!

看不爽的人3 said...

if u dare to write out...pls put your name inside lah...wtf!..coward..

I LIKE MY NAME LUCAS Chris said...

serious disappointment...perhaps i shud nt drop anymore comments...

Sherly said...

reply lucas chris : I am accept wat you say.. and yet i aslo asking myself? izit everyone is perfect?? Do you?? I had did my best.. that it..

L U C A S Chris said...

sherly:u also think i dropped dat comment?real funny...long time no see shi ting's blog ad...da latest thing i kno bout it is she accused me for da thing dat i neva did...n nw da whole world think i did dat?pls la...even i do nth also kena blamed!damn sien ad...i was workin i also dunno hw can i drop comment...

诗婷 said...

re lucas:
i didnt accuse u ok ?
i just 'ask' u ...
n i know it wasn't u after reading ur msg!
it's only the way u write the oomment cause the misunderstanding...

 
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